Helping person who was fooled by someone on Dating app to invest in a scam digital investment platform. Now I’m broke and have debt to pay.

Hello,  I met this girl on dating app called HER. My goal is to get a foreign girlfriend who can speak english because I want to improve my english. I found this girl and I  guessed that she is Singaporean so I swiped right. Finally, we matched and she texted me.

We were talking about everything in life, family, sexuality, friend, work, and covid19. She asked me if my family accept my sexuality. I said yes.  I asked her too and she said they’re ok about it. but her ex-girlfriend didn’t accept her relationship and sexuality that why they’re broke up. (I felt pity for her)  We talked normally and flirted for a few days. She said she really wants a girlfriend. I told her that we should date first. She said she wanted me to meet her in Singapore and have a date there. She said that meeting me was fate and luck. She said that she works for an export company in Singapore called GODIVA (fake too). I asked her for a photo but that photo was taken from someone on the internet (after I know that she was a scammer). She tried talking about her investment every night  which I don’t understand what was about but she told me I made a profit every day. She could buy a house for her own (at that time, I only thought that she is a successful woman).  and she willing to teach me how to do it but you need to prepare some money. At that time I didn’t believe about anything like that and I don’t know anything about digital platform investment. 

So, I denied her. She was kind of angry a bit. She said I want to fall in love not to make you invest and told me to decide about it later. (I was confused about what she said). She gone for 1 hour and came back talk to me that she made profit again and she can withdraw money rightaway. She tried to convince me that the platform was very safe and all of her friends use it during covid19, trust me. She tried to tell me that I could do something better.

after that we talked and flirted like usual for a few days and then she asked me if I am serious about her or is it just for fun. (My personally, I don’t like having a relationship just for fun) So I said I am serious. And she told me about her bank acc how much does she has. She really wanted someone to move in. (She tried to make me believe that she is serious about the relationship) She even talked about getting married and her dreamt about me being with her in paris, holding hands, grow old together. (That was I wanted to).

Days later, She told me to try to invest again (at that point I already fell for her lie). I transferred money to the platform and invest with her. I started a small amount of money. that night I gain profit and the next day I can withdraw. She told me to prepare more money then I’ll make the best plan for you and you will gain more profit. She told me that I do this for our future. I want you the best. (I fell for that again). So I prepared more money and invest with her again around 40,000 baht (that was all my saving). I gained profit that night and the next day I want to withdraw but I can’t take the money out. I talked to customer service they didn’t reply to me. So I talked to her what’s happened I can’t withdraw money. She said she will talk to customer service for me because she is a supreme VIP (She told me she has money in it 50,000$). but while doing that she convinced to find more money and gain profit tonight. She said to me don’t worry. I was scared but she tried to calm me down. after few minutes customer service said you can withdraw money tomorrow. I told her about this. She said my money was there too I didn’t withdraw it. My money is more than yours. Don’t worry and told me to find more money and we will invest and gain profit tonight we will withdraw money together. (She said we will have a beautiful future together. I fell for it again). She said prepared more 100,000 baht but I don’t have. (She kinda get mad about it). Finally, I cash out my credit card 60,000 baht (now I have debt) after we invested that night. I want to withdraw money next day but I can’t anymore. and she still want me to invest more money which now I’m broke. She told me to look for more money but I can’t. She kinda get mad again. Now I know that she is a scammer and everything she said was a lie. She even said I hate you I was so shocked about it. (She used to say that she loved me every day)

I came to the police but it doesn’t help because the scammer was a foreigner. I might not get my money back. I was so hopeless and ashamed of what I’ve done. I couldn’t eat nor sleep since it happened.

I couldn’t tell my family or ask for help because nobody has money at this time. Our family went broke because of covid19 and we’re all struggling.

I just want to find a lover and this is the lie I have been given. I was mentally hurt and lost all the money I had. I don't think people have this kind of demeaning mind. Deceive the feelings of others, it's not funny.

I am thinking about ending my life. But I still have a father to take care of. He wants me That's why your donation means a lot to me. Thank you for reading my story so far.

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